He Traveled to Date Ukrainian Girls He NEVER Talked To!

With so many Ukraine dating apps out there, foreigners often form opinions about Slavic women based on the profiles they come across while scrolling. Dating profiles, however, don’t always tell the full story. Some Ukrainian girls are known to be exaggerated, others seek casual relationships, and on many apps the profiles are outright scams.

Foreigners serious about finding a Ukrainian wife don’t rely on dating apps. Instead, they take the extra step—embarking on solo travel to Eastern Europe to date Ukrainian girls firsthand, where real conversations and face-to-face interactions can reveal far more than a carefully curated profile ever could. Average Ukrainian women pursue serious professions—architects, doctors, makeup artists—each with a serious approach to relationships, which is a breath of fresh air compared to the ever-unpredictable dating landscape in many Western countries.

For many foreigners, often labeled "passport bros," dissatisfied with their domestic options and seeking to build a future with a Ukrainian woman who values commitment, Kyiv is proving to be the right place. However, war broke and hope may all seem lost.

“You hear about the war all the time,” he admitted, “but being here, I feel safe. Ukraine is a huge country, and while there are risks, the chances of something happening to you personally are incredibly low. You’d have to be extremely unlucky.”

Elgin's experience at Ukraine speed dating events had been nothing short of surprising. Arriving late to his first one, he barely had fifteen minutes to mingle—yet he still walked away with sixteen phone numbers. With fewer bachelors attending these days, the Ukrainian women are eager to connect, making it an excellent opportunity for genuine conversations and meaningful dates. More numbers, more dates, more chances to find someone special. Unlike traditional dating, where you might meet one or two people at a time, Ukraine dating events provide the opportunity to explore options and make thoughtful choices.

Elgin hadn’t spent much time sending messages to Ukraine girls before traveling, but he quickly realized that meeting in person was far better than endless swiping through dating apps. “Seeing someone in real life—their expressions, the way they talk, their presence—that’s something sending messages can never capture,” he said.

And the dates? Plenty of them. Three yesterday, three more today. Each one began with the usual small talk, exchanging basic ideas and seeing if a connection was there. If both sides felt something real, they’d take it further. It was a natural, organic way of getting to know someone, without the pressure of having to force a match. Most importantly, dates are facilitated by Ukrainian matchmakers who act as a guide, dating coach, and interpreter simultaneously.

So why Ukraine?

Why not explore dating beyond borders in Eastern Europe?

For Elgin, the answer was simple. A friend of his in Texas has been married to a Ukrainian woman for fifteen years, and they have two kids. His advice had been clear: if you want to meet a woman who truly values family, go to Ukraine. Now, standing in the middle of this incredible experience, Elgin had no regrets.

For the men still sitting at home, sending messages and wondering if they should take the leap, his advice was straightforward: “Get off the couch and come here. See for yourself. Meet these women in person. Experience it. You never know—you might just meet your future wife.”

And it wasn’t just about the dates. The entire experience—from the supportive team that helped set up meetings to the warm Ukrainian hospitality—made the trip worthwhile. Even the food was fantastic. While there were plenty of other international dating options, Elgin felt that the Ukraine dating landscape was the best choice for him.

For a legion of men worldwide searching for their dream of romantic connections with Ukrainian women, working with Slavic matchmakers can go a long way.