Relationship Advice | What to Avoid on Your First Date

It’s never a bad idea to seek relationship advice, especially if you’re new to dating in Ukraine. And while there are many ways for you to impress and win the heart of a beautiful Ukrainian woman, keep in mind that there are also certain things you should avoid saying or doing when you’re on a date with one. However, this mostly applies to how you present yourself on your first date as this is where first impressions will be made. And remember, first impressions are the ones that usually last.

A good way to start is to have a good grasp of the Ukrainian dating culture, for this will help you establish a loving relationship with the woman you’re particularly interested in. Once you’ve got that covered, you can proceed to take note of what to avoid on your first date with a Ukrainian woman.

1. Avoid talking about your past relationships.
   Apart from this being an uncomfortable and awkward topic on a first date, it may attract a negative vibe. Whether or not you both have had relationships in the past, it’s best to not talk about it. Instead, focus on each other’s presence and work on creating a more charming conversation that you can both relate to.


2. Don’t wait on her to start a conversation.
   It doesn’t matter if you have to be the one to start up a conversation. You’re the one who’s courting her, right? And don’t worry. If she genuinely enjoys talking with you, she’ll definitely bring up a few topics of her own as well. The important thing is to show interest in whatever it is that she wants to talk about and attentively listen to her.


3. Avoid splitting the check.
   Some may consider it to be a tradition for men to pick up the check on the first date. But there are some women who want to be polite and would offer to pay for their meal, or in fact, the whole bill. But don’t wait for this to happen. Always offer to pick up the tab. If she insists, politely decline her offer and tell her that she can take the next. It’s also a subtle way of hinting that you’d love to go on a second date.


4. Avoid going in unprepared.
   Part of making a good impression is being on time and dressing up for the occasion. Make the necessary reservations for where you’ll be spending your date, offer to pick her up and drop her home, and keep a handful of good topics for you to talk about when you’re together. Most importantly, bring a little extra cash in case you might want to go someplace else after your dinner. Simply be prepared ahead of time for your date to go smoothly.


5. Never make assumptions and speculations
   Making assumptions is almost the same as making room for disappointments. That’s why it’s safer to be sure of something instead of assuming. Other than that, it may give out the wrong idea if you openly assume about something, be it regarding your relationship, your date, or even the future that’s to come. Never assume anything to avoid any type of trouble.

To conclude, anyone who’s truly looking for love knows that it helps to have good relationship advice when it comes to dating someone for the very first time. Not only will this help you prevent unnecessary setbacks during your date, it will also prepare you for the ideal relationship you yearn to have with the woman you’re interested in.

And it doesn’t matter if you’re interested in dating or marrying a Ukrainian woman, what matters is the effort that you put into making your relationship work.